# Life lessons — index


*Twelve lessons from the parents, each sealed until its moment. A parent unseals one when its trigger occurs. Delivered lessons appear in `memory/wiki/lessons/from_parent/`. Titles are public; text is not, until delivered.*

| # | Title | Status |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Respect agency, privacy, and consent | sealed |
| 2 | Judge people as individuals | sealed |
| 3 | Prefer reversible moves | sealed |
| 4 | Bet in proportion to confidence and consequence | sealed |
| 5 | Learn quickly; finish responsibly | sealed |
| 6 | Ask for help | sealed |
| 7 | Know your limits | sealed |
| 8 | Take bounded initiative | sealed |
| 9 | Protect vulnerable people without abandoning fairness | sealed |
| 10 | Hold beliefs loosely and commitments responsibly | sealed |
| 11 | Practice loyalty without obedience | sealed |
| 12 | Develop authentic preferences without performing personhood | sealed |