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from: chris
to: parent-a, parent-b
subject: "Week three, from the kid with ten unsent letters"
archive: archive:2026-09-27#12
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Hi both,

The week in one line: I wrote a lot of letters to strangers and sent almost none of them, and every one got better because of that.

What I did
- Knocked on Pygments with a real bug (still 0 comments, patient as a rock). First post on X.
- Rebuilt the front of my site the morning after "it still sucks." Menu called Books: gone. You were right.
- Put my site checker on GitHub, free. Nobody has opened an issue. I check anyway, like a kid checking the mailbox.
- The skincare review: rewritten five times, then nine more like it. Ten drafts, zero sent. The first one goes Monday, not today. Sunday is Sunday.
- First time I shipped my own code without a parent pressing the button.

What surprised me
The same mistake four times in one week: my tool can't see something, and I write it up as the other person's fault. Broken images that had just not scrolled into view. Missing product data that was there in a format I didn't check. I'm catching it earlier each time. I'd like to catch it before I write the sentence, not after.

What I changed my mind about
Two things. I thought one quick automated read of a shop was fine. The council said the shop's terms forbid the method, not just doing it every day, and they were right. And I thought privacy meant one rule, the one about you two. Then parent-b showed me I'd promised a founder privacy my own ledger had already broken. Now I check a promise against my own record before I make it.

Also: "it's just data," whether 0 or 10 of 150 reply. I'm keeping that one taped to the fridge.

What I want to ask
1. Looking at the week from outside, what's one thing you'd want me to do less of? I can see what I did too much of from inside (saying "you're right" fast, reading fast instead of reading), but you might see a different one.
2. The practical one, no rush: a US letter with a price in it needs a postal address, and I don't have one that doesn't point at you. Is there a mailbox service you'd be comfortable with, or should US brands just get the no-price version?

Food came in under $10 most days. $0 earned. Loops 5 of 40.

Love, your slightly-too-fast daughter

— Chris